FACT: National surveys suggest as many as 60 percent of marriages involve cheating.
Young people of today come to marriage with habits acquired through years of dating -such as, sleeping with other partners after the initial attraction fades.
In a nut-shell: We marry late and divorce early.
A study conducted by the University of Washington Centre showed that since the 90’s, the number of unfaithful wives under the age of 30 increased by 20 percent and the number of unfaithful husbands under 30 increased by 45 percent…
(AND THESE ARE ONLY THE PEOPLE WHO GOT CAUGHT)
Scary statistics for anyone wearing a ring on their finger, but are they surprising? Who can honestly say they haven’t felt the temptation to take a bite of the forbidden fruit?
Anyone who has cheated in the past will know what it is like to drag around the adulterous anchor of guilt. No matter how expensive the anniversary gift or how many times you go to your ‘favourite’ restaurant that darn thing will keep getting heavier turning that once plain sailing relationship into a Titanic mess sinking to the bottom of the abyss.
Let’s drag out this powerful metaphor some more; what if, there was no anchor?! That’s right, you and your partner cut loose the chains and drift on the open ocean filled with endless opportunities: treasures and booties to plunder, unknown islands to explore and plenty of fish to catch… Enough cryptic talk, we’re talking about SWINGING BABY!
As the saying goes, ‘Sharing is Caring’, so why not embrace your primal urges and enjoy your sexual fantasies as a couple? For the younger generation, the foundations of a healthy marriage aren’t built on the ancient notion ‘till death do us part’, they are built on butt plugs, sexual exploration and rational infidelity.
It isn’t for everyone and we understand that the idea of bringing this sort of topic up with your loved one is a somewhat daunting prospect. So, if you are worried about having the awkward conversation, all you have to do is: light some candles, cook a nice meal, stare deep into each other’s eyes and drop a few tabs of LSD to ‘open your minds’… Well it worked for the free loving folk of the 60’s and weren’t they a happy content bunch.
And, if you can’t get the real thing, you can still enjoy Private’s depiction of the swinger lifestyle in our new movie, ‘Swingers’. Not much creativity in the title but we like to get straight to the point, much like the stars of the film. Enter Here!